Excerpts from Chef Fila's Book

Excerpts from “Loving Yourself One Bite At A Time”
Chapter “Sensual Cooking”
The point in your life when you realize that life is too short!
 
Ladies have you ever asked yourself, what you were going to do when you finally meet your Prince Charming?  Are any of you really qualified in that department to keep him interested?  Or the real question here is do you really want to?  ​

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen Facebook posts on how women want their man to do this and that for them.  Hmm…But Ladies what are you bringing to the PLATE besides finances and routine? 
In this chapter, I am going to show you different ways on how to keep your Man guessing what your next move will be!  They say the way to a Man’s heart is though his Stomach.  Ladies that means to FEED HIM!  And not just feed him with food, feed him with “Food for Thought”.  Do spontaneous things that will keep him thinking about how good it feels to be with you.  Make him wonder about you during the day.  Make him think about coming home for Lunch!
 
I have been a Chef for quite a few years now.  I learned that Men get so excited to hear that they may be dating a Chef!  The first question is always “When will you cook for me?”  My thought is “Really?  Let’s get to first base then talk about it!”  Men take all the fun out it by asking.  And some Men expect that you cook for them up front instead of letting you offer.  I say, “Let the Fellas earn it first!”  A Woman’s energy is far too precious to waste on someone who is not worthy or appreciative!  Scope him out after a few dates.  After you’ve figured out that you like spending time with him, then plan the next date on you and blow his mind!  Plus, it’s so much more fun to plan each adventure carefully based on his personality after you continue to learn HIM.    
Getting to know the Personality of your partner is important.  You have to communicate by methods of talking, use of body language, the sense of “Touch” … which we will talk about later on in the chapters ahead.  Communication is the Key to a longer lasting adventurous relationship!  The Chemistry of Sensuality must be reached!  Your goal is to Please.  His goal is to pleasure.  Then Vice Versa!  Mix the both and you have one Hot and Heavy Connection!